Ways to stop a tantrum
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					If a child is throwing a tantrum, these ideas can help stop the behavior.
				
				
				
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1 point - posted 14 years ago by 
kris in category 
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						Listen to the child
						
 
					
						 -be understanding, but explain that rules are there for a reason
					
				 
				
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						Be consistent with your rules and how much you tolerate
						
 
					
						- don’t overdo it with strictness but be firm
					
				 
				
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						Teach your child healthy ways to express anger
						
 
					
						 - such as punching a pillow
					
				 
				
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						Use a passionate voice
						
 
					
						 - but do not yell, that won’t accomplish anything good
					
				 
				
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						Repeat yourself if necessary
						
 
					
						-and keep repeating until heard
					
				 
				
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						Show your mood on your face
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Ignore the tantrum
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Suggest that the child watch television to relax
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Give the child space when he or she is throwing a tantrum
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Change the subject
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Give the child a hug to help calm them down
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Propose that you play a game or get them involved in something else
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Teach young children sign language so that they can communicate more easily
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Empathize with young children to try to figure out what’s bothering them
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Make a snack: hunger fuels tantrums
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Pick up your child and take them away from where the tantrum started: a change of scenery can work wonders
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Provide rewards for good behavior
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Use a calm, soothing voice
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Do not panic if your child throws a tantrum in public, remain level-headed
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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						Understand that it can be hard to be a child and feel misunderstood, but never give in to a tantrum just because you feel bad
						
 
					
						
					
				 
				
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