1.
Stop and Visit
The elderly get lonely including those living in nursing homes and assisted living. Stop by and visit even if only for a few minutes you will be surprised at what a difference it will make in their day.
131 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 5 comments
Comments:
Yes it's really nice to help an elderly person
Added 6 years ago by guest, 3 points
yes I agree that this is helpful
Added 9 years ago by guest, 11 points
really nice for us just to talk to them to make their day brighten
Added 9 years ago by guest, 11 points
take some time for them and enjoy with them
Added 11 years ago by guest, 11 points
good idea.
Added 13 years ago by guest, 9 points
2.
Cook for Them
Often it is hard to cook for one and the elderly will just eat a sandwich or cold cereal instead. You could cook them something special or cook a little extra when you cook and take it to them.
91 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 3 comments
Comments:
It's a great choice
Added 6 years ago by guest, 1 point
even know I don't know how to cook yet I still think this is a good idea
Added 9 years ago by guest, 4 points
good idea
Added 9 years ago by guest, 3 points
3.
Play an Old Board Game or Card Game
Playing old games with them may give them a sense of old memories. This may allow them to feel younger again, which is always a good felling to have.
84 points - added 14 years ago by guest - 1 comment
Comments:
awesome idea.
Added 14 years ago by guest, 0 points
4.
Read
Many time he or she may not be able to see to read anymore ask if they would like you to read them the paper and/or bring them a book on tape.
74 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 2 comments
Comments:
Perfect Idea
Added 8 years ago by guest, 2 points
Reading would be good, knowing that some elderly forgot how to read or even lost some of their sight. Also it lets them know when you spend time like that, that their not forgotten.
Added 9 years ago by guest, 6 points
5.
Listen To Them
A basic need people have is just for someone to listen to them - really listen. From this, you can find some of the most important things they need or want.
63 points - added 13 years ago by guest - 5 comments
Comments:
Thats a great idea
Added 10 years ago by guest, 2 points
this help me out a lot on my project
Added 10 years ago by guest, 2 points
In response to "I think this is a fantastic idea," I say: You don't already listen?
Added 11 years ago by guest, 2 points
I think this is a fantastic idea
Added 12 years ago by guest, 6 points
awsome
Added 13 years ago by guest, 3 points
6.
CHECK ON THEM WHEN THE WEATHER IS BAD
59 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 2 comments
Comments:
Always keep smile......
Added 8 years ago by guest, -2 points
I will always :-)
Added 9 years ago by guest, 2 points
7.
Do a Chore (Clean)
There are many chores that need done that people may not see yet the person living there can an example dust that gathers on higher places is dangerous for the elderly to clean.
55 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 2 comments
Comments:
Sounds like a good idea.
Added 12 years ago by guest, -5 points
i think you should help elderly
Added 13 years ago by guest, -1 points
8.
Look At Old Pictures
49 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
Remember the good memories so that you can have a great time. Hugging each other laughing about all the good things in the past. Heart beating, mouths laughing, and pages moving slowly.
Added 11 years ago by guest, -2 points
9.
Bake Them a Birthday ake
38 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 7 comments
Comments:
Old people love to eat cake....
Added 8 years ago by guest, -6 points
I LOVE ME SOME AKE!!!!!!!!
Added 8 years ago by guest, 0 points
I think making them Birthday cake would make them so excited and happy and give them a sense of want and belongence
Added 8 years ago by guest, -2 points
I love me some ake
Added 11 years ago by guest, -1 points
The spelling of cake is not ake
Plz note it!!
:)
Added 12 years ago by guest, -3 points
Birthday Cake.
Added 15 years ago by JARM1, -4 points
CAKE maybe take a cake decorating class
Added 15 years ago by JARM1, -1 points
10.
Pick up their medications for them
33 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
people should help elderly people when there are sick or help them get lower things or higher things that is why you should help them i belive in them help them please
Added 13 years ago by guest, -2 points
11.
Adopt A Grandparent
33 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
Good idea
Added 7 years ago by guest, 1 point
12.
Spend the night with your grandparents
Many grandparents get lonely when their grandkids don't visit them. Every now and then spend the weekend with them.
23 points - added 14 years ago by guest - 1 comment
Comments:
WHAT WHY WOULD YOU CENSORE THE C.U.M WHY , ITS JUST PART OF A NAME ,U SICK COM UNCENSORE THAT
Added 10 years ago by guest, -1 points
13.
Phone
Phone and talk a few minutes if you cannot stop by just to make sure their doing all right.
23 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
14.
write a letter
Unsteady hands make writing illegible. Send elderly your return address labels to use as addressing letters to you, those ones sent to you from charities.
22 points - added 13 years ago by guest - 1 comment
Comments:
really nice
Added 9 years ago by guest, 2 points
15.
Holiday baking and decorating
Offer to help with holiday baking and decorating. If possible, invite them to come stay at your house and have them help you with your baking and decorating. Plan to make some easy homemade decorations too. Play holiday music and allow them to tell you stories of years gone by.
15 points - added 13 years ago by guest - 2 comments
Comments:
my grandparents on dad's side don't celebrate holidays but mom's parents do
Added 9 years ago by guest, 0 points
sounds like a good idea to me
Added 9 years ago by guest, 3 points
16.
Help a blind man cross the road
13 points - added 14 years ago by guest - 3 comments
Comments:
that would be really helpful to the blind man
Added 9 years ago by guest, 1 point
that would be really nice
Added 9 years ago by guest, 2 points
that is right but in our india some people can not help them
Added 11 years ago by guest, -9 points
17.
Check Locks
Check door locks and make sure they are in good working condition.
13 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
good idea
Added 10 years ago by guest, -1 points
18.
Take her/him to a medical appointment
13 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
good idea
Added 9 years ago by guest, 2 points
19.
Get Them Involved
See if they may have an intrest in playing local bingo or in going to the local senior center.
11 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
20.
Make an emergency storm pack
11 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
21.
Home Repairs
See if there are any small home repairs, you can do.
11 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
22.
Meals on Wheels
Mention meals on wheels in general conversation some people may not know about this program.
This organization supplies hot lunches to qualifying elderly.
10 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
really helpful to the old people
Added 9 years ago by guest, 3 points
23.
Update Insurance
If a family member is not close by you can help make sure that their insurance information is up to date and that any Medicare premiums are paid and see if they are eligble for medicaid or other insurance programs.
9 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
24.
Bring Your Pet to Visit
You will of course want to be sure that the person likes pets and is not allergic to them.
Pets have been taken in nursing homes and they bring smiles to the elderly faces
9 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
25.
Shop
Offer to take them to do their shopping or to pick it up when you do yours. Many elderly people are on fixed incomes you could also clip coupons on items you know they use.
9 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
26.
Talk to them
talking to them will show them you listen and care and listen to their problems
8 points - added 12 years ago by guest -
27.
Smoke Detectors
Make sure they have smoke detectors in the home and maybe bring some fresh batteries.
8 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
28.
Plant Flowers
Plant flowers that need little care or buy a houseplant.
8 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 - 1 comment
Comments:
a shepherd's hook of different height makes it possible for the elderly to care and water plants while standing or in a wheel chair.
Added 13 years ago by guest, 4 points
29.
Never Bring them to Home for the Aged
The best care for an old person can only be rendered by his own family members. Often we think that in home for the aged they would be guided more by the proffesionals, but we were wrong, cause no matter how good they are in treating the physical pain that the old person is going trough, they can never ease the emotional pain that they might be undergoing. Caring for the elderly is our own responsibility and not of the other people, home is the best place to go for a person who only have few days left in the world. Let us not deprived them the oppurtunity to have this precious thing in the last hours of their lives.
7 points - added 15 years ago by guest - 4 comments
Comments:
I agree.. never easy but I guess its about time for the family to return back the favour that their elderly have done something that makes them who they are now. Putting yourself in their situation as to how you would want to be taken care of when you reach their age would give a big impact to see the importance of having them in the family HOME for the last fews years of their lives.
Added 9 years ago by guest, 2 points
I agree.
Added 12 years ago by guest, 6 points
When I was a child, there was a short time when my Mom and her siblings couldn't take care of my grandmother, and they put her in a home for the elderly for a couple of weeks. (My grandfather had already passed away, and she was on her own.) This was back in the 1970's, and she was a Polish immigrant that moved to this country around the turn of the century, lived in a Polish neighborhood with other people like her, and never really learned to speak English. During the time she was in that home, we visited her, and the effect it has on me was profound. The despair I saw in her eyes was palpable, and it engrained in me the strongest determination that no matter what, I would always assure my parents didn't have to go to a place like that. Now, with my own mother nearing the end of her life (she's 86, and a cancer patient for the past 4 years), I'm grateful for having had that experience all those years ago, as it taught me the importance of stepping up and dealing with our aging parents in a responsible and respectful manner.
Added 12 years ago by guest, 18 points
Beautifully said!
Added 13 years ago by guest, 9 points
30.
PICNIC AT THE PARK
Pack favorite foods and munchies. Walk to see the animals and view the children playing. If by a river to listen to it flow. Breathe in the fresh air!
6 points - added 13 years ago by guest -
31.
Play some Board Games
Some elderly people can have fun too. Play some board games or just some games. Elderly people love to laugth. Especially they like to play with kids because the kids maybe remind them of there own kids!
4 points - added 14 years ago by guest -
32.
Make sure they have proper heat and air.
2 points - added 15 years ago by JARM1 -
33.
LOVE YOUR GRANDPARENTS
-1 point - added 9 years ago by guest -
34.
Give them a hand massage
My dad recently passed but before he did, his hands were bothering him. Tingly all the time. I wished I would have taken a few minutes each day to get a basin and wash them and rub them in cocoa nut butter and clipped his nails.
-1 point - added 9 years ago by guest -
35.
Give them Music
I am a singer who specializes in Singing for the elderly and it is a medicine of enormous proportions.
-1 point - added 11 years ago by guest -
36.
take walk with them
It helps them to let of all there worry's and it refreshes them and they get a better feeling of life
-1 point - added 14 years ago by guest -
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